do you really love me?

another post from frenster thought that triggers my thoughts on well.....you. if you are in love or think that you are, then this should be interesting. my comments are in the brackets.
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For all you people who say, "I love you" whenyou have no clue what love is exactly!!!Something to ponder upon...

Are your palms sweaty, is your heart racing and is your voice caught within your chest?? -It isn't love, it's LIKE.

You can't keep your eyes or hands off of her/him -It isn't love, it's LUST.

Are you proud, and eager to show her/him off?? -It isn't love, it's LUCK.

Do you want her because you know she's/he's there?? -It isn't love, it's LONELINESS.

Are you with her/him because it's whateveryone wants??It isn't love, it?s LOYALTY.

Are you with her because she/he kissed you, or held your hand?It isn't love, it's LOW CONFIDENCE.

Do you stay for her/him confessions of love,because you don't want to hurt her/him?It isn't love, it's PITY. (my comments : i dont need no fucking pity from any bugger. love me for me)

Do you belong to her/him because the sight of her/him makes your heart skip a beat??It isn't love, it's INFATUATION.

Do you pardon her faults because you care about her/him?It isn't love, it's FRIENDSHIP.

Do you tell her/him every day she is the only one you think of?It isn't love, it's a LIE. ( i agree. hell i think about a freakin' load of people. but it aint the same if it aint u )

Are you willing to give up all of your favorite things for her sake?It isn't love, it's CHARITY. ( I wouldnt give up singing for the world. just tt i sing to a different crowd i guess, meaning just u. but if u love me for who i am, u wouldnt ask me to give it up)
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Does your heart ache and break when she's sad?Then it's LOVE. ( so dont u ever say again that it doesnt matter what u say or do. or that u dowan to drag me along with u. tt's dumb and u noe it. wateva happens i want to noe. even if i cant help u i'd still listen to what shit u're going thru)

Do you cry for her/his pain, even when she's/he's strong?Then it's LOVE. ( like i said before, even if u think u can manage it on your own, not for a second am i satisfied. i always feel like i havent done enough)

Do her/his eyes see your true heart, and touch your soul so deeply it hurts?Then it's LOVE. (this needs no elaboration)

Do you stay because a blinding,incomprehensible mix of pain and relation pulls you close and holds you to her/him?Then it's LOVE. ( again another thing that needs no clarification because i dont understand why these things happen either. all i know is that they do)

Do you accept her/his faults because it's apart of who she/he is?Then it's LOVE. (sometimes i just want to bloody slap you. or i tell you u're stupid or a bastard. but itz you. and that's who i'm in love with, faults and all)

Are you attracted to others, but stay with her/him faithfully without regret??Then it's LOVE. (sure. many times i've thought....if only this...if only that. but at the end of the day you realise that only that person can make you whole)

Would you give her/him your heart, your life,your death??Then it's LOVE. ( u are my world. n you know about the death part.)

Now, if love is painful, and tortures us so,why do we love? ( because it is the most basic thing for us; to crave for love. to madness???? maybe. but to noe that u're loved by someone is a feeling that surpasses everything else.)

Why is it all we search for in life? This pain, this agony? Why is it all we long for? This torture, this powerful death of self? Why?The answer is so simple cause it's...LOVE.It is such an addictive thing that even people who are not having it wish to experience it and share it with others as well.Pass this to all your friends so they don't make the same mistake with their LOVE LIVES!!I like the dreams of the future better than the history of the past...Love hurts our feeling, but it's also the reason our soul heals...

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what is life without love. what is love without sacrifices. who am i without you.